We’ve all met people who don’t care at all what others think. I tell my clients – Other people’s opinions about you are NONE of your business!
Still, in some ways you can envy those people who never seem to care or even consider what others think of them. Oh What FREEDOM!
AND, really we want balance. To be ’emotionally intelligent’, we need to have some consideration of what others may be thinking of us whilst not caring so much that it prevents us being our true self… our authentic self.
A client of mine worried that for 40 years she’d felt unable to do what she wanted to do. She’d joined the family business because she feared her family would think bad of her if she followed her passion for music. She’d never taken ownership of her own life and done what she wanted to do.
So, I asked the ten million dollar question: ‘What would you really like to do,?’ She paused, looked doubtful, then a shy smile emerged, followed by a bigger one: “You know, now the kids are grown up, my husband and I, we’d love to follow our dream of retiring to Spain and opening a small hotel.”
“What’s stopping you?” What is preventing you from following your heart and doing what you want?
“The same thing that always has: fear of what people would think.”
Worrying what other people think is the cause of all kinds of chaos, embarrassment, missed opportunities, inner resentments, regret, and yes… bitterness.
What’s stopping you? Ask yourself, What’s important to me about __________________. Insert an area of life such as Career, Business, Health, Personal Development, Spirituality, Family, Relationships, Fitness, and LIFE. These are your VALUES and what’s important to you. Discover what you truly want and what’s important to you!
PS. I offer Breakthrough Sessions lasting anywhere from 6 to 8 hours where we get clear on your goals and release what’s stopping you using the latest mind strategies and techniques. NLP Coaching, Time Line Therapy(R) & Hypnosis. Connect with me for your assessment and consultation today!
To your health, results and success!
Lynn Thier – Your Mental Fitness Trainer & Fat Loss Expert!
Lynn Thier, RHN
About: Lynn Thier will get you there ~ with practical cutting edge methods for making positive shifts & change happen. Owner of Peak Performance Academy, Lynn teaches and consults on how to get mentally fit in sport, business and life. Lynn offers seminars, training’s and programs as well as Board Certifications in NLP Coaching, NLP Techniques, Hypnosis & Time Line Therapy(R).